Guest blogger and long-time NPT reader Cindy Holbrook shares the 7 most common obstacles to success and how to overcome them…
Everyone wants to succeed. No one sets a goal to fail but sometimes obstacles get in the way of our progress. However, obstacles need only slow our progress— they don’t have to mean failure. Here then are 7 obstacles to success and suggestions for overcoming their challenges.
1. Lack of Focus
>90% of people have identified lack of focus as their biggest obstacle to success. Does this describe you? You jump around from one project to another. You have one hundred half finished projects laying around. You’re confused and wonder why success seems to evade you. Soon you give up believing the goal was unrealistic in the first place.
You need to learn self-discipline.
The first thing you want to do decide exactly what your objective is. The next thing is weed out all of your unfinished projects that will not assist you in achieving your goal. Prioritize your tasks and finish it before moving to another. If you find yourself drifting, you need to stop and remind yourself of what you are attempting to accomplish and why.
You may want to set aside an hour or two each day to focus on the project at hand. Tackle the hardest tasks first. Then move on to the easier ones. Every successful person has developed the habit of self-discipline and focus. By focusing on one project at a time your success will be just a matter of time.
You are a perfectionist. You finish your project, but you don’t think it’s quite right. You tweak it a little, and then begin to wonder what else isn’t right. You don’t want to put it out there until you are sure it is perfect.
You need to learn to take a risk. Put it out there, it’s just fine. Nothing is ever perfect. There’s always room for improvement. You have no way of knowing which improvements are needed until you put it out there for the world to see.
Once it’s out there get to work on your next project.
3. Lack of Money
Many people believe the saying “It takes money to make money”. While this may be true to an extent, it is an obstacle that can be easily overcome because if you truly desire something you can always find the money.
It may be a matter of skipping a night out on the town or brown bagging it to work. Most people can find a lot of money that they squander on wants each month instead of needs. You have to ask yourself what you want more.
If you have a great idea and need more money than you have – You may be able to get a loan or by doing some investigating you could be fortunate enough to find an investor for your project. The great thing about following Ros’s “Super Affiliate Handbook” is that you can begin your business with very little money.
What are you really afraid of?
You’ve probably heard the term, “Fear of Success”. If that’s the way you feel, there’s usually an underlying reason. Do you think that if you succeed you’ll have more responsibility than you can handle? Do you feel unworthy of success? Do you believe the lie your parents told you … “You will never amount to anything”? Are you afraid your significant other or a loved one won’t love you as much if you succeed? That they will envy you and turn on you? Maybe even leave? Are you afraid of criticism if you fail?
Or are you simply afraid of the unknown – How will success change your life?
Before you can overcome fear, you need to figure out exactly what you are afraid of. Often times once you realize exactly what your fear is, it dissipates. You need to learn to be confident in your decisions. Accept that you are not perfect but you are worthy of success. You have something of value to offer the world.
Visualize what life will be like when you succeed.
Everyone is allotted the same amount of time, 24 hours a day, and 365 days a year. It’s your choice how you spend your time. I often find lack of time is more of an excuse not to do something that you may not really want to do. Everyone seems to find the time to do things they enjoy.
By dedicating just an hour a day towards your goals – you will achieve them. Just about anyone can find an hour a day to focus on something that is important to them. For good time management skills you need to: Make and follow a Daily to-do list, Prioritize, Clear away physical and mental clutter, Delegate whenever possible and Learn to say NO. Don’t waste your precious time doing something you don’t want to do just so you don’t hurt some ones feelings.
This could be an inner conflict within yourself, a conflict with your significant other or a business partner.
To be successful you need to follow your passion. Your goals need to be personal. It must be something you desire with all of your heart, mind and soul. You can’t try to do something that goes against your personal ethics and morals. You will be in constant distress and will lack motivation to do anything.
If your vision conflicts with your spouse or significant other – then you should rethink it. Find a compromise. If your conflict is with a business partner, it may be easier to go your separate ways.
Don’t allow distractions to get in the way of you achieving your dreams. Distractions are just a form of procrastination. Distractions can be anything from getting up for a cup of coffee, taking the kids to school, talking on the phone or watching TV. If you’re working on the internet, it’s way to easy to get caught up going to this site – or that one. To read blogs, post comments, watch You Tube … and the list goes on.
When distractions arise, you need to remind yourself what you are trying to accomplish and then FOCUS.
Bottom Line: Decide what you want to accomplish. Be sure it’s something you are passionate about and that it aligns with your beliefs and values. Set aside a certain time of day to focus on achieving your objective.
To be successful you need to develop your focus, be persistent and remain positive.
Cindy Holbrook manages a blog that focuses on Overcoming Life’s Obstacles. She pulls from her personal experiences as well as through her 15+ years working in social services. Pick up your free e-book “Your Guide to Happiness” when you visit CindySense.com.